Couples Resources

My name is Elaine Korngold, LPC. Below are various couples resources – books and video clips that I share in sessions with my Couples Counseling clients:

Books Referenced in Couples Counseling

  • The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work – by J. M. Gottman
  • You Are the One You’ve Been Waiting For: Bringing Courageous Love To Intimate Relationships – by R. C. Schwartz
  • Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love – by S. Johnson

Attachment Styles

  • Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love – by A. Levine & R. Heller
  • Wired for Dating: How Understanding Neurobiology and Attachment Style Can Help You Find Your Ideal Mate – by S. Tatkin & H. Hendrix
  • Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship – by S. Tatkin & H. Hendrix
  • The Power of Attachment: How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships – by D. P. Heller


  • NOT “Just Friends”: Protect Your Relationship From Infidelity and Heal the Trauma of Betrayal – by S. Glass (with J. C. Staeheli)
  • What Makes Love Last? how to build trust and avoid betrayal: Secrets From the Love Lab – by J. M. Gottman & N. Silver
  • The Science of Trust: Emotional Attunement for Couples – by J. Gottman

Neurodiverse Relationships

  • The ADHD Effect on Marriage: Understand and Rebuild Your Relationship in Six Steps – by M. Orlov
  • Married to Distraction: Restoring Intimacy and Strengthening Your Marriage in an Age of Interruption – by E. M. Hallowell, S. Hallowell, & M. Orlov
  • ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship – by A. Tuckman
  • Love and Asperger’s: Practical Strategies To Help Couples Understand Each Other and Strengthen Their Connection – by K. McNulty

Videos Referenced in Couples Counseling